20 tips and sayings for self-development and success
Advice is usually self-explanatory, but once someone gives it to us, we take it seriously and start considering the possibility of using it. So before you do anything, follow me and read these great tips and motivational quotes in the field of self-development, who knows, one of them might change your life (for the better, of course) !
1. Avoid Procrastination
Don't be late If you want to achieve something, do it now. You don't have to think about the phrase "I'll get it done tomorrow" or it becomes tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow forever.
2- Your habits are your future
You must develop good habits, because your habits determine your life, and habits gradually become a way of life, leading us to the future.
People underestimate the importance of customs and fail to realize that today's habits are yesterday's customs and future's destiny. If you want to be a writer, make a habit of writing and reading every day, and eventually you will become a writer like no other.
Similarly, if you want to become an artist, practice and develop your skills. Besides, if you want to fail, you just have to spend your time struggling between doing the wrong thing, getting up and doing nothing, from ruining your health to wasting your precious time.
3- Ensure continuous development
Make learning, growing and changing a priority in your life.
4- Open up to the world
Be open and accepting of different cultures, religions and genders. The essence of life is difference, and difference is what makes us great.
5- Set your goals smartly
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Set your goal and focus on achieving it. Those who do not have a map are likely to get lost, which is not what we want.
If you're struggling with something, write down the steps and things that will help you get there. Start by making a list and writing down your future goals, then write down the tasks you need to accomplish to achieve your goals.
If you find yourself doing something that is not a step towards your goal, let it go and make your goal a priority. (Of course, soap operas and frequent hangouts aren't the factors that will get you there, unless you want to be a filmmaker or a wandering backpacker! Who knows?!
6- Write your diary
Write... Turn your life into stories, journals and magazines. Writing makes life clearer and allows us to adjust to it more smoothly. It makes us aware of our lives and learn from them as it makes us aware of our strengths and weaknesses. Writing gives us endless opportunities to quiet the mind, instead of taking it out and keeping it inside. When we can't find someone who can hear our voices and listen to our innermost thoughts, writing will happily do that.
7- Don't be afraid of change
desire for change Make small positive changes in your life James Clear says:
"Changes that initially seem insignificant can yield amazing results if you stick with it over the years."
8- Show your charm
Everyone is special and deserves to shine. What we have achieved and what is happening in our lives reveals our talents. So don't waste anything in your heart because you are too lazy to do anything!
9- You can do it whenever you want
If you want to cross the river, you can cross the river, and if you want to cross the river, you can cross the river. The river does not provide free transport services. Such is life, it will not give you a pot of gold solution. When you really want something, you can find a way, find a way, and finally achieve the goal you want.
10- Do not work for free
Yes, do not do any work for free. You will do whatever you ask in return.
Granted, money isn't the blood of life, and health and happiness are far more important and significant, but let's be honest with ourselves: Without financial stability, your health will falter because then you can't afford healthy food.
Without financial stability, you will be in turmoil and worry, wondering how to meet your needs and ensure your strength, which affects your mental health. Without financial stability, you will need to depend on others and you will not be able to be happy because you will always feel burdened and dependent.
There is no shame in saying that money is your lifeline, nor is it wrong to say that health and happiness are closely related to financial stability.
11- Beware of emptiness
Nothing destroys a person's talents and abilities more than a minus. Emptiness is scary. It's certainly irrational to sit around and waste time because you don't want to do anything or because you have nothing to do.
Emptiness can destroy one's life and destroy one's mental health, so Spend time reading, writing or meditating, invent something to do. You only live once, and this time should not be wasted on false excuses.
12- Accept the tough times
be realistic. Life is not easy, it is full of stories of struggle, and there is no doubt that everyone goes through tough situations at some point in their lives. So, don't expect your life to go smoothly. Accidents, setbacks, setbacks and stress are all part of life. It is realistic to go through these things, and it is also realistic to develop your abilities and skills to overcome these crises.
13. Failure doesn't mean failure
Don't always think that your defeat means your failure. Instead, sometimes you need to lose something in order to change something, and that thing can be an old thought, for example, or an old habit that isn't doing you any good. Lori Gottlieb says:
“I know what many people struggle to understand: Change and loss go hand in hand. We cannot make any change without losing it. But it often happens that many people say they want to change. But they don't stand still and they haven't changed at all!"
14- The material is not enough
Cherish the time spent with your family and loved ones. No matter how precious things are, we and those closest to us are still the most precious things we have. Philosopher Albert Camus said:
When you see the light of happiness on the faces of your loved ones, you will realize that human beings can have only one mission and that is to light up the faces around you. ,
15- Regret and wasting time are two sides of the same coin
Regret only hits you when you go down the wrong path, filling you with regret about your bad choices, choices that often waste your time on temporary things with no long-term payoff. Poet Charles Bukowski said:
16- Equip yourself with ambition
Always strive for the best. Ambition is a common trait of successful people.
17- Create your own happiness
Don't let the chaos and noise of the world blind you to the beauty of the little things and create peace within yourself. Waldo Emerson said that we shouldn't wait to be happy until we dig deep and create it ourselves:
Although we travel the world in search of beauty, we will never find it unless we take it with us.
18. Be smart and beware of obstinacy
Whenever you get a chance, try to reconsider your thinking, because nothing is ever certain. What you believe today may be wrong tomorrow. Consider reconsidering other people's views, because even if you disagree with them, their arguments are likely better and more comprehensive than yours. Also, create your own philosophy and do research before committing to any idea.
19- Ensure continuous development
Even if you become a professional, always try to move forward. Ralph Waldo Emerson said:
"You'll never grow until you try to do something more than what you've already mastered."
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20- Invest in your dreams
Make it a reality because it can change your life. All great things start with a dream, don't underestimate your dreams.stay away from it as much as possible. your empty